Author: preetispurpose

About Preeti's Purpose Blog: Life can be interpreted in a million ways. As individuals we see life through the lens of our passions, perceptions, and understanding of reality. I find blogs to be the 21st century’s message in a bottle. It’s our attempt to reach out and share our world view with anyone who discovers us. And in that way it becomes a marker in time of perceptions, political climate, social influences, current culture, and in a word life. My passion lies in art (craft, fashion, music, etc.), sociology, feminism, and human rights issues. These interests shape my world view and guide me closer to honing in on my exact purpose in this life. My career aspiration is to help give voice to a variety of social issues we face today and to be an advocate for human rights. I hope to share interesting media I find and to create an archive of sociologically relevant information. Through the art of blogging, I aspire to visualize my ultimate purpose and to take people along on my journey of self discovery – the path to reaching my goals.

The Case for Space: an exploration of healing and placemaking

The following was a final assignment for the “Communication in Context” course in the MFA in Community Practice program at Moore College.


In my journey through the MFA in Community Practice program I am attempting to determine my path as an artist and activist. For several years I have been yearning to meld these two aspects of myself into a long-term artistic project to raise awareness about Gender-Based Violence (GBV). In recent years I’m continually drawn to the vision of a community space that brings art, technology, and activism together. I see this space as one of healing and education for myself and fellow citizens interested in taking the journey. Through conversations with faculty at Moore I have been guided on ways of creating a meaningful artistic project that is true to myself as a maker. This has led me to zoom in on what exactly draws me to my current vision of a community space. Through the mentioned guidance, I realize that the idea of creating a permanent physical space is of great value to me. I can do my work as an artist and activist without creating a space, yet I keep returning to the need for one. Whether I crunch the data, pray, or mediate I keep coming to the same answer. So I plan to push forward to make this vision come true. And as I create business plans, consult with experts, and hunt for funding, I continue my artistic process of creating my masterpiece.Th first step of the process is to explore space and its meaning to me as an artist, activist, and survivor of Gender-Based Violence (GBV).

Academic Definitions of Space

During my initial meditation on space, I started with a simple word map to see what came to the surface.  It became apparent that for me space meant many things, with a theme toward healing. As a feminist the idea of healing space is one I work with constantly. I attempt to create such spaces through the events I hold, the workshops I lead, and the outreach I participate in. Within the activist community such spaces are called by many names, including:

• Safe Space
• Brave Space
• Safer Space
• Healing Space
• Safe House
• Refuge
• Sanctuary
• Shelter
• Retreat

Of these terms “safe space” is the most widely used and well-known. The origins of the term come from the 1960’s and 70’s women’s movement and gay rights movement (Harris 2015). Though the name was not given until this time, the concept was in use well before from the civil rights movement to the Salem witch trials. Anywhere that people gathered for sanctuary to communicate, safe space existed. In the past few decades this term has become mainstream and a topic of controversy in media and on college campuses. Putting the disagreements aside, I first want to delve into the definition and implied meanings of the term safe space. A quick search online yields many definitions of the term including the following:

A place where everyone can feel comfortable about expressing their identity without fear of discrimination or attack.  A situation or place where a person can feel comfortable and secure.” (Macmillan Dictionary 2016)

A place or environment in which a person or category of people can feel confident that they will not be exposed to discrimination, criticism, harassment, or any other emotional or physical harm. (Oxford Living Dictionaries 2016)

A Safe Space is a place where anyone can relax and be able to fully express, without fear of being made to feel uncomfortable, unwelcome, or unsafe on account of biological sex, race/ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, cultural background, religious affiliation, age, or physical or mental ability.  A place where the rules guard each person’s self-respect and dignity and strongly encourage everyone to respect others. (Safe Space Network 2016)

The definition can be summed up as a place where one is safe to express their true self in a respectful and comfortable environment. This expression leads to open communication and an attempt to dismantle the oppressions we face. But recently the term “safe” has been called into question and replaced with “brave” by some (Arao, Clemens 2013). Facilitators of social justice work are seeing a pushback from participants who avoid dealing with difficult conversations such as racism in the name of “safety.” Others see the term safe as something no one can guarantee. The nature of social justice conversations is to take a risk and confront oppression. This inherent risk makes the use of the word safe questionable both for the entitled and the oppressed. Because there is a subjective quality to the concept of safety, one must question if it is the right word to use. Deconstructing words can be a slippery slope and eventually a word must be chosen, flaws and all. After reflection, I realize that “healing space” most closely defines what I work to create as an artist and activist. In order to heal one must create a space for comfort and safety, while at the same time being brave in participation and conversation. Healing takes great risk, and with time will lead to a safer and braver space in our soul.

Artistic Definitions of Space

In visual art the definition of space is:

An element of art, space refers to distances or areas around, between or within components of a piece. Space can be positive (white or light) or negative (black or dark), open or closed, shallow or deep and two-dimensional or three-dimensional. Sometimes space isn’t actually within a piece, but the illusion of it. (Esaak 2016)

I reflected on the visual meaning of space and decided to create a piece in a medium outside my comfort zone. I was inspired by Professor Lodwick’s suggestion to create a documentary. I have been taking her “Communication in Context” course this semester at Moore College and have learned the importance of using an array of communication tools. This was an opportunity to practice video editing and get familiar with what is accessible through the Creative Commons. To my surprise and delight there was a vast array of videos and photos available for free use that met my aesthetic goals. It was a little harder to find music that fit my needs, but I eventually settled on a song. This medium gave me the opportunity to meld my love of prose with visual art. The process helped me reflect on the ethereal and sublime aspects of space.

Link to Film:

The Practical Case for Safe Space

Note: For the remainder of the text I will continue to use the term safe space instead of healing space. Because safe space is the mainstream term used, I find it more conducive to conversation to continue with this term.

The ultimate goal of a safe space is exactly what the name and definitions imply – a frame that allows people to feel safe as themselves. Safe spaces emerged as a response to oppression and the lack of safety in public spaces. Women who were facing misogyny, patriarchy, and sexism created spaces meant to heal, educate, and enlighten. LGBTQ people who were facing homophobia and transphobia created spaces where they could express their sexual orientation and gender identity without physical harm. To some extent we can see safe space elements in any meeting space that has been created for oppressed groups dating back possibly since the start of formalized societies. As an activist I regularly work to create safe spaces for people to talk about Gender-Based Violence (GBV). I understand the importance and need for a place where oppressed people can gather and heal. The difficulty though is that each space I create is temporary, only lasting for hours. The energy and interest created in those few hours dissipates after people separate. There is a power in being able to return again and again to the same place to work on an issue. The energy created through the work begins to permeate in the space and grow. It eventually seeps out into its neighboring environment. Longterm connections can be formed. Longterm projects can be realized. Activists can have a place to call home, outside of the events and protests. The coffee house meetings can be replaced with round table discussions. Archives of information can be collected and made accessible. Resources and tools can be shared with regularity. Physical space has a vast number of positive outcomes. I could continue on with the practical need for space and cite an enumerable number of experts who agree. But this would not answer why space holds a place in my soul. To understand why space is valuable to me as an individual I have to dig deeper into my own story.

The Spiritual and Emotional Case for Safe Space

Through further meditation, analysis and personal reflection I am uncovering the many layers that make up my desire to create safe spaces. This process has been so powerful and transformative for me as an artist, an activist, and a survivor of trauma. Under the practical, rational, and logical reasons is something deeper. I have a spiritual and emotional calling to create this space. And I begin to see my desire for safe space is as much for myself as it is for the community.

Safe space was something I wouldn’t experience physically until the age of 26. The journey to this feeling was long and complex. I grew up in an abusive household with a violent mother and an alcoholic father. The extended family that I knew was filled with sexual abusers and traumatized victims of assault. Feeling safe was an unknown concept to me and those around me. My earliest memories are filled with the feelings of anxiety, fear, and dread. I learned quickly that my life depended on following the unspoken rules of the the adults around me. Much of my upbringing felt like walking across an icy lake. Each step was filled with trepidation, wondering when the ground below me would crack; wondering when I would be swallowed whole by my mother’s rage, my father’s addiction, my deepening depression. Staying vigilant while simultaneously existing in a dissociated state became my baseline. Like so many others facing trauma, my adrenaline was always pumping, yet I felt numb and disconnected. The only connection with reality left was my art. I would draw and write poetry for hours, and only in those moments would my mind clear. It was in these moments I found hope and strength.

I was lucky enough to separate from my abusers around the age of 22. My lifeline came in the form of a marriage that gave me the strength to move away from my family. But my wounds would not allow me to participate in a healthy relationship or even accept my sexual identity, and soon I was divorced. With no family or partner left to distract me, I finally was forced to turn my gaze inward. I started the difficult work of therapy. After several months I started to uncover the wounds I desperately covered for years. With these wounds opened, I experienced a severe flare-up in physical and psychological ailments. The impact started to wear on me and I was struggling to keep my job. Due to my stubborn nature and denial I kept trying to push through and hold on. After all, I had survived this long. I moved into a studio apartment a short distance from work, eliminating my longer commute. But even this wasn’t enough to hold onto employment. I eventually went onto long-term disability and continued working intensely on my recovery.


One night as I was laying in bed I was looking at my apartment and this unknown feeling washed over me. It was then that I realized this feeling was safety. From my bed I could see every corner of my home, from the bathroom to the kitchen to the front door. Nighttime has always been a hard time for me because I have always struggled to sleep. My mind is always plagued with anxious thoughts racing around, never letting me rest. Through therapy I started to uncover some vague memories of trauma I faced while sleeping as a child. The feeling of safety evoked by the full visibility of my surroundings was directly linked to the past dangers I faced in dark rooms as a child. I remember in that moment I started sobbing uncontrollably. Everything came together and I understood for the first time that I was never safe before. With further self-care I realized that I was learning what safety meant and creating a safe space where I could finally start to let my guard down. I also began to understand the difference between escape and safe space; I started to let go of dissociation and move toward building a space where I could be present and safe from the inside out. I started to meditate and strengthen my spiritual practice. I connected with my artistic practice once again and channeled my emotions through paint and poetry. I saw then that art was always my tool for healing; my reason to push on. Both my spiritual and artistic practice showed me that safe space is not just about a physical place but also a mental state.

The Subversion of Safe Spaces

As I more fully understand why safe space is a value to me, I am also painfully aware others see it differently. The recent election is a reminder to those outside of the activist community that we live in a country with deeply divided ethics. Years of oppressed people rising up has led to an all-time high of denial and minimization by those in power. Human rights for so many are under attack with the recent election of Donald Trump as president. Most recently the concept of safe spaces is being subverted. Authorities in educational institutions such as University of Chicago paint “trigger warnings” and “safe spaces” as propaganda against “academic freedom” ( Goins-Phillips 2016). The response to protests at institutions such as Mizzou, Georgetown, and Yale point to further minimization of the experiences of oppressed groups (Cooper 2015). Even actor Adam Carolla is working on a documentary entitled, “No More Safe Spaces.” He plans to invade and dismantle such spaces all to reassert his fundamental “beliefs”: “When did everyone become such a colossal pussy? Having your beliefs challenged is as American as apple pie.” (Ernst 2016). This statement shows the gross misunderstanding of safe spaces by entitled individuals and those in power. Sometimes I wonder under all the posturing, just how broken Carolla and the likes really are. They are so disconnected from their own feelings that they can’t even understand the pain others endure. Because they have decided to be cut off from empathy, they feel the same should go for everyone.


Even when others deny suffering, those of us on the side of safe space will fight back for our right to heal. We will fight for our right to be brave and take on the difficult conversations of violence, oppression, and entitlement. We will fight for our right to dignity, respect, and empathy from our fellow human beings. We will fight for our right to healing and placemaking: to create spaces that say we are here and we are strong.

This is why now more than ever I know I must create a healing community arts space that teaches others empathy and advocacy. From time immemorial we have followed a model of violence that is infused in every fiber of our society. This lack of empathy and denial is a natural byproduct of a violent culture. We have learned to dissociate on a macro level in order to survive. Its time for us to be present as a whole and do the difficult work of dismantling oppression. I know creating my one space won’t change the world. It won’t even change a city. If I’m lucky I will be able to have an impact on a handful of people and plant the seeds of future collaborations between artist, activist, and citizen.


Vision of Community Arts Center




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The Village of Arts and Humanities

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The Village of Arts and Humanities is a place that has a long and rich history of creating space for community-building through the arts. Originally the building housed the Black Humanitarian Center, founded by artist and humanitarian Arthur Hall. Hall brought the power of dance, music, singing and beyond to the community. Twenty years later, artist Lily Yeh continued Hall’s legacy by creating a park around the center that engaged the community. Since then, the center continues to grow and is a true Philadelphia landmark. There seems to be a clear power to this specific location. As a spiritual person, I do believe energy can be connected to a specific place. The incarnations of 2544 Germantown Ave. proves this theory, and continually draws artists and community members together.

The Village has an artist-in-residence program called “SPACES” and is run by the program manager Lillian Dunn. I was lucky enough to get a wonderful tour from Lillian and learn more about the program. They are currently hosting artist Olanrewaju (Lanre) Tejuoso, who I also got to meet. Tejuoso’s work focuses on using waste materials and giving them new life as works of art. His projects involve community members, who can help create the work. I ended up spending some of my time at the center volunteering on his piece. We were creating a garland-like component that was composed of small squares of cut-up cardboard boxes on string. The process was meditative and made me crave my knitting needles, which have been tucked away for months. We sat in a small room and talked about our art, the project, and such. I left feeling rejuvenated and reminded of the power of community art. Sitting together working on a project creates a special energy that we should all experience from time to time. If you are interested in volunteering for this project, please contact Lillian Dunn to learn more.

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The Resource Exchange


The Resource Exchange.   (as stated on their website) is:

“nonprofit reuse center dedicated to promoting creative reuse, recycling, and resource conservation by diverting valuable materials from the waste stream and redirecting them to artists, builders, educators, and the general public.”

The store has all kinds of unique items that can get the creative juices flowing. Because the majority of goods are donation you never know what you will find. This could be a great resource for artists, teachers, and more. The Resource Exchange is located at 1701 N. 2nd Street and is always taking donations. Go check them out the next time you are in need of creative tools or inspiration.


Fabric Workshop Museum

The Fabric Workshop Museum is located at 1214 Arch Street and showcases works using materials and media to create unique works of art.  The current exhibition, “Ann Hamilton: habitus” melds textile and the written word to show the interconnectedness of these art forms.  The connection between “thread and line” is further explored through a showcase of archives from local Philadelphia museums and  collections.  This peak into the past evokes nostalgia and the theme of our interwoven histories.  Hamilton’s painstakingly intricate work makes the viewer take notice of time and dedication.



The Continuation of Preeti’s Purpose

It has been quite some time since I have posted on my blog. Of course my life and purpose moved forward, but I stopped documenting moments, experiences, and thoughts about it. I am now back in school and reinvigorated to get back to blogging. For me the goal is to create a personal archive that documents my experiences as a student. I hope to look back on these posts as a resource and a journal. I also hope to inspire others through my words. Thank you for continuing the journey with me!

I started the MFA in Community Practice program at Moore College of Art and Design. The field is an old one that is just recently becoming institutionalized. It goes by many names from community practice to social engagement and a million variations in between. What is means right now to me is the fusion of art and social awareness. The art attempts to go beyond contemplation to action. The author of the work can be comprised of many makers, even ones who never would call themselves an artist. The process explores the spaces surrounding the established definition of art. And through this exploration, community practice artists hope to impact the world around them.

As an activist and artist, this program felt like a destined decision. I first learned of Moore while taking walks on my lunch break as a new Philadelphian in 2006. I worked at 17th and Arch streets at the time and would explore the area with my friend and co-worker, Dianne. I remember the first time I saw the school I thought how amazing it must be to go to an art school right next to museums! This was not something I was accustomed to as a person from Northwestern PA. Little did I know that a decade later I would be attending this school that at gazed at in awe. I am in the second semester of school and loving every moment of it. After 30+ years I am finally studying art at an educational institution; a dream that has finally become a reality.

Preeti’s Poetry: The Space to Begin


This is a poem about taking a chance at the possibility of love.  It’s about letting someone in, even if we have been hurt in the past, even if that person doesn’t completely fit our ‘mental checklist’, even if we fear the risk of new beginnings.  It’s dedicated to a very special woman who took a chance and let me in…a woman who now holds my heart.


“The Space to Begin”

She engulfs me with desire.

I lay at night counting the minutes until I wake.

When will she be lying next to me?

My eyelids heavy, I will dream of her tonight.

To touch her, to kiss her, it’s all that lives in my mind.

She fears what it could mean to be in love with me.

She stifles her desire, but it can’t be hidden.

So different, yet the same.

I imagine what we could be: a complement to each.

Like the sun and moon…casting light onto her beauty.

Sharing the burden of lighting the skies.

Patience is the virtue I have tested of late.

With only dreams to comfort me.

I save the space in my heart and bed for her.

Hoping to calm her fears of the end, so we can finally begin.


—-Preeti Pathak, 6/9/14

Ganou and the Ill Fated Natives Collaborative Performance for International Women’s Day


Check out this amazing performance by Ganou and the Ill Fated Natives.  A huge THANK YOU to Global Women’s Strike for hosting the “Women Against Repression & Occupation: Rock, Rap & Speakout vs Poverty, Prisons & War” to celebrate International Women’s Day.

While videotaping the performance I was mesmerized and got lost in distraction…hence the broken up videos.  Ganou’s passionate and soulful voices captivates the listener; paired with the powerful and moving sound of Ill Fated Natives – they gave me chills.  Its always a special treat when you discover unexpected music.  I came to the event to support the Global Women’s Strike movement and enjoy artistic expression.  I left with a song I can’t stop playing…even if through piecemeal videos.




Can’t wait to see them perform again.  Check out their websites to learn more:


Ill Fated Natives

The Gorgeous Watkins Glen State Park, NY


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If you are looking to visit a breathtaking natural wonder, then Watkins Glen State Park, NY is a must see.  The most famous park in the Finger Lakes region, it is said to leave visitors “spellbound.”  And I can attest that it’s true!

In a last-minute attempt to make the most of the long weekend, I searched online for good places to hike in northeastern U.S.  I came upon a helpful review about Watkins Glen.  I went on to find pictures and was thrilled to see such a beautiful place so close to Philadelphia (approx. 4.5 hrs).  My “on the whim” kind of trip turned out to be one of the best experiences ever.

The park consisted of two major trails; the “Gorge Trail” and the “Indian Trail.”  The former led you to up close views of the gorge, while the latter was a path through the forested area.  Each section was truly unique.  I felt like I couldn’t stop taking pictures!  I needed something to hold as a memory of the inspiration surrounding me.

The park is a moving reminder of the power of nature.  To think of the the thousands of years of erosion that led to the beautiful rock formations gives me chills.  It shows us that nature is the greatest artist of all time.  And though the park was crowded and noisy with tourists, I was able to find peaceful moments to truly get lost in the splendor…a great test of my meditation practice:)

If you’ve been to the park, please share your comments below.  I would love to hear about your experience.  I’ll leave you with some trip planning details:


Address: Route 14, Watkins Glen, NY 14891

Phone: (607) 535-4511



Tips: Bring cash for the entrance fee, and dress for hiking.  The gorge area is wet and muddy so wear proper shoes!  The area does get crowded with tourists, so try to go during off-peak times.

The Movement to Transition to a Better Future


No matter what opinion you follow, in our collective “heart of hearts” we know the world needs to change.  The disparity of human rights shows us that the system in place is not working.  But finding the solution to our many broken structures can be daunting.  It’s become clear that we haven’t found the one solution to “solve it all.”  This has led to small pockets of individuals banding together to change different pieces of the puzzle.  People around the world are taking matters into their own hands and creating a better system for a better world.

One of the many unique movements that has been growing, is the “Transition Movement.”  The goal of the movement is to take action in one’s own community to bring about change.  The following quote from the site says it all:

“These communities have started up projects in areas of food, transport, energy, education, housing, waste, arts etc. as small-scale local responses to the global challenges of climate change, economic hardship and shrinking supplies of cheap energy. Together, these small-scale responses make up something much bigger, and help show the way forward for governments, business and the rest of us.”

Transition communities are specifically focusing on the following social issues: oil dependence, climate change, and economic downturn.  These issues effect everyone’s daily lives from their food sources to their energy supply.  And as the movement grows they will hopefully spark a world-wide revolution to take matters into our own hands as citizens of earth. 

To learn more watch the documentary, “Transition 1.0” on Vimeo for free.  Also visit and read the “What is a Transition Initiative?” section.

Documentary: Transition 1.0

“An Evening for Freedom:” Dawn’s Place Gala March, 16 2013


Dawn’s Place combats Commercial Sexual Exploitation (CSE) to improve the lives of women who have been trafficked, prostituted or pimped.  Dawn’s Place is hosting the First Annual Gala and Silent Auction this March 16, 2013.  Proceeds from this benefit will help provide services to women directly effected by CSE.


One of my role models and founder of GEMS, Rachel Lloyd, will be the Keynote Speaker at the event.  Senator Daylin Leach will also be speaking and receiving an award for his Anti-Human Trafficking work.

Come join us for an amazing night of information, dinner, dancing, fundraising, and more!  Your support will help Dawn’s Place provide vital services to the Philadelphia and International community, as well as raise awareness about Commercial Sexual Exploitation.

Looking for other ways to help?  We are still seeking donations for the Silent Auction.  Please call Dawn’s Place if you would like to learn more.  Thank you to all those who have given donations!


Event Details:

Date: Saturday, March 16, 2013

Time: 6:30 – 10 pm

Location: The Baldwin School, 701 Montgomery Ave. Bryn Mawr, PA 19010

Ticket Cost: Gold Ticket: $100, Platinum Ticket: $200

To RSVP: Click Here